People can be in bondage due to mindsets that has been formed over the years of our life. It sets people up for a lot of hurt and pain. There really is no pain like the pain of rejection. It’s when you feel unloved, not worthy of someone’s time; that you’re not important enough for others.

We are not excusing rejection, but we want to get rid of the pain of rejection.

God created us with a conscious and subconscious mind. The subconscious mind doesn’t work with our natural senses. It’s full of our memories; programs and a belief system.

The thing we are after right now is for you to be free from the pain of rejection and that mindset.

The first thing that must happen is that we need to realize we have been rejected and forgive those who did that to us.

We can say there is a spirit of rejection involved as well, but I want to expose the mindSET of rejection which is a stronghold over many people.

All potential and blessing is found within our relationships. God has created to be in relationships and through these the blessing of God lies. If we can’t get relationships right, we can’t receive blessings from God because He works through people many times.

If you have a mindset of shame, the devil is going to keep you away from people, and you won’t be able to receive what you’re suppose to have because you’re hiding from it through your mindset.

Another thing to realize now is that many times people only trigger what is inside of us already. If you have anger inside of you, a person can trigger that but we need to know it’s already inside of you. Pain is already inside of you, and you look through the lenses and observe through those distorted lenses at what people are doing or not doing.

Rejection wants to be heard. Rejection wants other to know about the pain they are experiencing. For example, when a person does something to trigger the person with rejection problems, they will explode in a way that might really not be needed, and analyze the wrong done in an inaccurate way. The reaction can then cause more problems. We need to fix the reaction. Because if you continue to react like this, you will break relationships all the time. So, let’s discover how this thing is set up in the mind.

Triggers will expose this problem.

People can actually say “I hate the way this person makes me feel”, because the thing they feel inside is so sore.

When we pick up that we are triggered, we can start searching for “why am I triggered?”, and the Lord will then help us catch the root and get free and healed.

People with a rejection problem get tunnel – vision when they are triggered. They can only see what they feel is happening now. Your eyes can’t see the other good things, and you can’t even remember what the person did well. They only see the one thing that they are doing wrong. This is also when the subconscious is reacting. These hurting people then feel that by reacting, they are exposing what the other person are doing to them. They do this in different ways – some people talk; others don’t talk at all; others avoid; others explode.

But it’s so painful to that prisoner of rejection.

This rejection problem makes the person stressed; angry; judgmental; can cause a victim mentality; always ready to attack. Their reasoning says “because I am triggered, you are wrong.” This is the calculation which is made through our subconscious mind.

Our subconscious mind is our autopilot; also called – automatic response. It is how we respond automatically.

Rejection is part of this life. It’s all over the place. You can go to the bank and feel rejected, you can go to a church and feel rejected. You can pick it up everywhere. The enemy uses this to bring pain, and we have to untie this thing today.

Rejection steals your awareness ability. You can’t discern what is right and wrong; you just get triggered in your pain, and this distorts what is really going on in the situation. All you feel is the pain, and it will conclude things like “you don’t love me.”

For many years I forgave my wife because “she doesn’t love me”. I concluded she doesn’t have time for me; I’m not a priority; etc.

But I concluded this from rejection problems. And this conclusion in itself hurts also. It makes the pain worse. And you know what… It’s all lies from the enemy!

If you can recognize what is happening; the truth, you can be set free.

This is hiding, so we need to ask God to help us recognize it.

Rejection is triggered when a person feels they are not a priority; when they are looking for attention.

Neediness will take over and cause people to go away.

This mindset is always trying to proof to you that you are not loved.

You can feel rejected without the person even meaning or knowing he/she is rejecting you.

If you follow the mindset of rejection, you will end up at the destination. Ad that is: REJECTED.